I haven’t done anything wrong and tomorrow would be our 10th month anniversary of dating, but she says that she doesn’t want to feel tied down, she says shes a very flirty girl and she misses flirting and playing with other guys. Shes having a hard choice choosing between freedom and weather or not to stay with me. Help please, I can’t deal with this by myself. I want her back its so painful, shes the greatest thing thats ever happened to me.

She thinks we cant marry because of her religion problem, as she belongs to a diffrent religion so she left me alone.

I found here phone number and sent her a lot of messages…Finally I managed to get anxious and started writing things that made her not wanting to meet me…I am in love with her and I want to do something for that.What should I do or tell her?

So me and this girl (both in our mid twenties) were physically intimate and I fell for her…but I finally expressed myself to her and she said she is not emotionally available right now. A little context. She would invite me over all the time…bought me a toothbrush. Her body language and signals were very POSITIVE. But she had also been dumped by her fiance like 8 months before.

She got pregnant during this time, but didn’t know it. I suspect her hormones caused her to pull away. And I started to treat her more as a friend to give her space b/c I sensed she pulled away. Finally she found out about the pregnancy…We got through the abortion, I was very supportive but it was tough on both of us. We have had the relationship talk, several times (I have been bringing it up) but she says this is a timing issue. I have pushed a few times to date, but she just wants to be friends. I am surely in the friends zone right now. She knows my feelings, but still hangs out with me, calls me, and lets me spend the night in her bed every once in a while. At the same time she says I don’t foresee a romantic future between us anytime soon. The more I pushed for a relationship, the more she pulled away. I get all that.

I am being drained and used. I get it. I am putting her life in front of mine. I get it. I am open and up front about my emotions towards here while she is repressing her feelings. I get it. But I made the choice to try and stick with her to see if she would come around. I still do boyfriend things to her (give her flowers, cards, gifts). We talk/text every day and see each other several times per week.

I have been trying to convert my feelings to friendship so I wouldn’t lose her. And having a solid opposite sex friend is so valuable. But I just can’t do it because I actually love this girl…. and some days its so painful.

Usually I play games with girls, so I never find myself in this situation. I am a good looking guy and have no problem meeting girls…But in this instance, I played small games for a little while (not returning calls and txts right away), but I liked her so much that I gave into my emotions and never really turned down a date when she asked me to do something. So for the first time, I didn’t play games as long as I should have… and look where it got me. How do I regain control here??

I have two thoughts right now…1.breakup with her by leaving a comment on her myspace page or just tell her to come over my house and tell her is over..can somebody give me any suggestions?

I just broke up with my girlfriend. How long should I wait before I start looking for another girl?

attended The United States Military Academy in New York and met her on the weekend in the city. She had sent me letters for a year before she finally made it to the city. We talked almost everynight while I was at the academy. I dropped out of school and moved to my hometown in NC. I had spent my last days up North with her and she wanted closure and said goodbye. A month and a half later she told me she was pregnant and sent me the sonogram. I yelled at her and told her she was on her own.
She cried and called my grandma who I lived with and asked her to please talk to me so I’d consider helping her. My grandma sent her money and said that she and I wanted for her to have an abortion. She ended up having one and I dated and had sex with another girl while she was pregnant and never called her after the initial call not even the day of the abortion. My new gf cheated on me so I called my ex and asked her to put on the show House and watch it while I was on the phone with her because I used to watch it with my new girl and told her she should wear Gap perfume because my new gf that cheated wore that. I didnt even ask her about the abortion.
I convinced her to spend the $ to fly to NC and told her I’d give her closure for the abortion. I got scared to see her so when she was on the plane about to take off in her state I told her she was a ***** turned off my phone and never got her at the airport. She ended up paying for a hotel and called my grandma who stayed with her in the room for the weekend.
I couldnt get any other girls that I wanted so I called her and told her I loved her and wished shed kept the baby. She sent me a homemade valentine and I didnt send one back or say thankyou because I didnt want to be a pussy and make something. Also she emailed my new girl that ended up cheating from NC and told her I was a bad person.
Do you think I have a chance of getting my ex back who lost the baby?

my ex and i were together for almost 3 years, she broke up with me a couple of days before the anniversary. since then i have dated other girls, but nothing serious while she got a new bf who was one of my best friends. i believe she scrolled through her contacts list and landed on him and made it work. anyway, they were together for about 3 months and i have just recently found out that they broke up. we have been apart for 6 months and ive wanted her back everyday. i really did try to get over her and dated with intent of getting over her, but i still want her. so my question is now that she is single again how long do i wait to contact her? how and what do i do to contact her? we didnt really speak over the breakup i text messaged her once asking how she was and she replied that she was great and didnt want to be my friend and to leave her alone; that was when she was with her new bf. so please help me out here.

ok so there is this amazing girl that i was dating but one day she just said that we arent going out. so im not sure what i should do or how i should do it.

I have dated alot of girls and after dating this one for 2 years i was 100% sure i was going to marry her. We got in a small fight and she needed some time. well it seemed like things were beginning to work out again, she told me to call her the next day and i did, she didnt answer. so i bought her flowers and chocolate and went to her house, i used her car garage opener to get in and she was in the shower, she wouldnt come out to talk to me she just kept crying. so i left. later that night she told me she was scared for her life. i have never done anything to make her think that way. i was only there to show how much i cared. looking back maybe i should of just left the flowers by her door. but all i could think about was the smile that was going to be on her face. well now she has told me she doesnt ever think she can date me again after me breaking in and scaring her like that. i would take a bullet for this girl, not hurt her. im so lost. comments and help are much appreciated!
she thought i was yelling at her, i was just trying to get her to talk to me. after 2 years i just wanted to get 10 minutes to talk to the love of my life. she said i was banging on the door and yelling which scared her. i had no intentions of scaring her, only there to make everything better, and in turn i ruined it all, probably forever…….comments much appreciated

I pressured my 15 year old girlfriend for sex. She didn’t want to and finally got tired of me asking and said ok. We almost did it but then she got sick all over me and ran out. It has been 3 weeks and she won’t talk to me. How do I get her to see how sorry I am? How do I get her back?

We Were Together For 9 Months. She Ended It Because She Felt I Wasnt Ready As An Adult To Be In A Relationship. 8 Months Later I Have Finally Got My Crap Together. She Hates Me Because Of False Rumors She Heard After We Broke Up. She Just Started Dating Some Guy But I Want Her Back And The Only Contact I Have To Her Is Through Email.