I was with a girl for a couple years and I found out that she cheated on me in the first couple months that we were together. I found out on pure intuition. We were so happy until I figured out what had happened. Then all the problems came and I couldn’t forgive her. I went on a break with her and hooked up with my other ex-girlfriend. Then I told her and she said that it was much worst what I did because I did hooked up with someone when we were in love, whereas she did it in the beginning phase of our relationship. We never got back together after the break because I couldn’t forgive her and she has a problem with confrontation so she lies. It’s been a year and I still think I love her but I’m not 100% shure if I really do. And sadly I still havn’t really gotten with any other girls for a whole year, which is bad because there are a lot of girls that like me (not conceited thought). Did I make a mistake? Why can’t I completely let go of this girl?
Originally posted 2008-10-02 03:53:50.
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seems like you still love her. its pretty messed up that she cheated on you, but it was a long time ago.. you gotta forgive and forget.
this seems a lot like my story.
that quote is not true: ‘once a cheater, always a cheater’ such bull crap – i cheated
Call her. Tell her this last year has been hell for you and the thought of her has crossed your mind everyday. Remind her of your incident but tell her you did that out of pure jealousy and hurt. Let her understand that you did something wrong. She may have hurt you but you hurt her twelve times as hard. Send her an I.M. if easier just to get your feelings out there and then call her. Leave her a rose in her mail box, with her name in script on the petal.
PS- You can’t get her off your mind because you buisness with her is unfinished : )