Ive had a relationship with my girlfriend for the last 4 months, and she is a good person, just we’ve had alot of fights in those 4 months, abotu everything, where i was going, why i was 20 minutes late to call her and everything, We are both 18 and about a month ago, I really realized that im not ready for a relationship like this, she talks about having kids and getting married and moving in with her, and im not even close to that, I try talking to her telling her i need time to think about it all and i dont know if i can have a girlfriend like this at this point and she gets mad. I know i cnat handle it and i know i cant deal with it, For the last month ive beent rying to break up with her and including 4 times in one day where she just wouldnt get it. She tells me that she cant let it go and that she wont and she will do everything she can to stay together, including waiting for me to finally realize I need her, and that she only wants kids with me and never going to have another
Obviously you failed to read, I have tried, over and over and she doesnt let it happen, she tells me to take time to think and says she wont get over me or wait for me to want to be with her again and things like that
Originally posted 2008-09-27 00:13:55.
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Run fast, run very fast
why does she have to be the one to break up….be a man and get it over with!!
She sounds like she could be a stalker. You need to be very direct. Tell her that it is best for both of you to end the relationship. Tell her that you don’t want to have to file a restraining order against her but you will if you have to. Then follow through.
Start acting real needy and controlling and call her all the time and that will start getting on her nerves and she will want someone else – reverse psychology.
wow thats crazy
she either loves u or is obsess with u
just tell her the truth
u r pressuring me into something im not ready for
and i need time to think and need some space
Stop being such a spineless weenie! Tell her that you don’t want to see her anymore. Don’t call her anymore and block her calls to you. CUT OFF ANY AND ALL COMMUNICATION. Start going out with somone else…Jeez it isn’t that difficult. How in the world does she “not let it happen”? You’ve got a psycho ***** here and it may be difficult to separate….
Obviously she’s not getting the message so just stop communicating with her and she just might figure it out. Tell her that it is over and that’s all there is to it. You can’t make someone love you and she needs to learn that.
Shes phsyco,,tell her straight up,,I am not ready for such a serious relationship.Within 4 months she tells you how its going to be with marriage,,children etc.You are too young for all that.Some girls are in such a hurry & then they wonder why it doesnt work out after they have children etc.Tell her today & get free.
WOW… She seems scary. I know this is going to SOUND EASY and be really hard to do, but you just gotta end it. Tell her that she is on a completely different path than you are, and that even though you care alot for her, its TIME to go different ways. She is going to cry and scream and all you can do is LEAVE. Dont stick around for the fall out, it will just make things worse. Its only been 4 months. Next time when a girl starts acting like this from the get go, and you arent feeling it- Be upfront with her, and END IT RIGHT AWAY!
Sounds to me like you have a fairly good head on your shoulder, knowing your not ready for all this . Sounds like she is to pushy. If you have to account for every minute of time away from her now, it will only get worse later or after marriage. Best thing to do is move, tell her it is over as you two seem to have different goals in life. She will probably do the next bf the same way, plus the old, she only wants kids by you and never have another bf thing, she is inmature. She talks a good game, but it is phony.