What can I do to get my ex girlfriend back after I emotionally abused her?

by admin on May 3, 2010



attended The United States Military Academy in New York and met her on the weekend in the city. She had sent me letters for a year before she finally made it to the city. We talked almost everynight while I was at the academy. I dropped out of school and moved to my hometown in NC. I had spent my last days up North with her and she wanted closure and said goodbye. A month and a half later she told me she was pregnant and sent me the sonogram. I yelled at her and told her she was on her own.
She cried and called my grandma who I lived with and asked her to please talk to me so I’d consider helping her. My grandma sent her money and said that she and I wanted for her to have an abortion. She ended up having one and I dated and had sex with another girl while she was pregnant and never called her after the initial call not even the day of the abortion. My new gf cheated on me so I called my ex and asked her to put on the show House and watch it while I was on the phone with her because I used to watch it with my new girl and told her she should wear Gap perfume because my new gf that cheated wore that. I didnt even ask her about the abortion.
I convinced her to spend the $ to fly to NC and told her I’d give her closure for the abortion. I got scared to see her so when she was on the plane about to take off in her state I told her she was a ***** turned off my phone and never got her at the airport. She ended up paying for a hotel and called my grandma who stayed with her in the room for the weekend.
I couldnt get any other girls that I wanted so I called her and told her I loved her and wished shed kept the baby. She sent me a homemade valentine and I didnt send one back or say thankyou because I didnt want to be a pussy and make something. Also she emailed my new girl that ended up cheating from NC and told her I was a bad person.
Do you think I have a chance of getting my ex back who lost the baby?

Originally posted 2009-04-05 22:09:47.

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*Cara* April 12, 2009 at 6:01 am

I think if she had one brain in her head she’d stay the heck away from you forever. If it were me, you wouldn’t have a snowball’s chance in hell.

disclosed123 April 14, 2009 at 1:12 pm

i think you are the biggest a** hole ever! you don’t deserve her!

Samantha s April 17, 2009 at 1:22 am

After doing all that?No.You just proved yourself a-hole…

younenme April 19, 2009 at 9:03 pm

Uuum, no?
Most likely you will abuse her again for your own needs, therefore i cannot see any reason for her to come back to you.

Micaela April 22, 2009 at 4:26 am

oh wow! not trying to be too mean here but u were being a dick to her! good luck trying to get her back unless she loves you. =] i dont blame her for saying that…

lovetobeme0421 April 22, 2009 at 2:02 pm

I don’t really understand why you want her back. She e-mailed your gf and told her you are a bad person therefore she thinks you are a bad person. If anything I think you should talk to your grandmother since she seems to be spending a lot of time w/ her. Ask your grandmother about her. I also think you want your ex back only because you are lonely and can’t find someone else, so instead of relying on her to make you feel better why not work on making yourself feel better by yourself.

moi April 24, 2009 at 2:06 pm

the nerve you have to even ask……not even if you were the last man on earth…. wow

shallowliketheocean April 27, 2009 at 8:04 pm

Seek counseling immediately.

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