Well, Keep it fresh. Go places, Try something new together. Don’t be together EVERY day though. Sometimes you both will need space. But dont give her or dont ask for too much space, then it’ll make a gap between you two. Don’t latch onto each other, again the whole space thing. But again, Try going places with her and trying new things. Don’t keep repeating several conversations over and over with her. Just keep it good. (: And whenever she needs a helping hand and needs someone, give her one. Give her a shoulder to cry on and tell her it’ll all be ok and that you’ll help her through everything. Don’t be afraid of what your friends think of her either. If they don’t like her but you think that you like her A LOT or might even love her, take them all out together. It’s fun to have a date with maybe one or two of your friends and one or two of hers, that’s always fun to go on double dates too. Just keep it happy, and if things don’t work out, It’s ok if you two break up. You’ll either realize that you two are meant to be together and get back together or you’ll find someone new or better. (: Good luck to you two ! best of wishes !
Treat her right. Don’t play stupid teenage games with her, like ignoring her because your “friends” tell you to. Be honest and upfront about everything. Write down special dates, like her birthday or an anniversary of when you two met, and remind her of them. That will let her know that you think she’s special. Be very wary of anything you hear from “friends”, some of them may not want you two to stay together. Rumors can run rampant in any relationship. As much as you’d like to spend every waking minute with her, don’t. Talk to her about how much time you can spend together, and how much time she’d like to have with her friends. Talk about EVERYTHING, your fears, your dreams, your hopes, and let her talk to you too.
You are being a bit unrealistic about the “not ever breakup with her” thing though. She may not be the woman you marry, or you might not be the man for her. Realize this is just the beginning of your dating life, you will probably go through many broken hearts before you meet “the right one”.
Good luck, I’m 40, and just married my Mr Right in 2001 when I was 32.
{ 3 comments… read them below or add one }
You keep her in a box and only let her out for food. JK
Let her be happy on her own and give her space. Always be expanding her life or you will smother her.
Well, Keep it fresh. Go places, Try something new together. Don’t be together EVERY day though. Sometimes you both will need space. But dont give her or dont ask for too much space, then it’ll make a gap between you two. Don’t latch onto each other, again the whole space thing. But again, Try going places with her and trying new things. Don’t keep repeating several conversations over and over with her. Just keep it good. (: And whenever she needs a helping hand and needs someone, give her one. Give her a shoulder to cry on and tell her it’ll all be ok and that you’ll help her through everything. Don’t be afraid of what your friends think of her either. If they don’t like her but you think that you like her A LOT or might even love her, take them all out together. It’s fun to have a date with maybe one or two of your friends and one or two of hers, that’s always fun to go on double dates too. Just keep it happy, and if things don’t work out, It’s ok if you two break up. You’ll either realize that you two are meant to be together and get back together or you’ll find someone new or better. (: Good luck to you two ! best of wishes !
Treat her right. Don’t play stupid teenage games with her, like ignoring her because your “friends” tell you to. Be honest and upfront about everything. Write down special dates, like her birthday or an anniversary of when you two met, and remind her of them. That will let her know that you think she’s special. Be very wary of anything you hear from “friends”, some of them may not want you two to stay together. Rumors can run rampant in any relationship. As much as you’d like to spend every waking minute with her, don’t. Talk to her about how much time you can spend together, and how much time she’d like to have with her friends. Talk about EVERYTHING, your fears, your dreams, your hopes, and let her talk to you too.
You are being a bit unrealistic about the “not ever breakup with her” thing though. She may not be the woman you marry, or you might not be the man for her. Realize this is just the beginning of your dating life, you will probably go through many broken hearts before you meet “the right one”.
Good luck, I’m 40, and just married my Mr Right in 2001 when I was 32.