So me and my girlfriend broke up 2 weeks ago.. to make a long story short she broke up with me because of my insecurites and they really affected her in a negative way.. this is how ive been for a long time and im getting help for this..i have been going to counseling and really working on getting myself mentally healthy before i try to be with her again.. she says she still loves me and misses me but it was too much for her to handle being a relationship like that… i completely understand and thats why i know i need to fix myself before i try to be with her again.in the mean time weve had *** on 2 different occasions sinc ethe breakup and we still talk everyday on the phone.. when we talk i can tell shes not ready to be together so i never bring up being together we just talk and have simple conversation about our days..i limit calling her to once a day at night just to say hello and not pressue her into anything..well we had *** last night and she said she doesnt want me to give up
i felt many times after the breakup that i had no chance of being with her and that i should just move on and let her move on as well.. but when i talked to her yesterday she said she doesnt want me to move on and she isnt moving on and not to give up on her..i know i just need to prove to her that the same mistakes i made before will not happen again…and i know personally i dont wnat ot be with her again until i know within myself tha ti will not hurt her..i love her and just want her to be happy…in the mean time i feel like im getting mixed emotions because she says she doesnt want me to give up but when i talk to her normally and just on occasion say do you wanna get some lunch or something she always says no and thats shes not ready and that she still doesnt know what she wants..but doesnt that contradict her saying she doesnt want me to move on and not to give up on the relationship..im really confused and dont know where to turn and what to do..ive asked her and she just
seems to get frustrated like im trying to make her get back with me right now..i just want to know what direction to move in..beause i dont want to be hanging by a thread trying to prove to her things will be different if she really isnt even willing to be with me.. id rather just try to move on …i love her so much so if theres a chance then of course im going to try but its so hard because she will say something that makes me feel i have a chance then tell me she cant handle seeing me right now..how am i supposed to prove to her that she can enjoy herself with me and have a good time with me if she doesnt even give me a chance to show her.. since we started talking everyday she has never said its too much and never said she didnt want to talk so i know she still wants to talk but its like she wont see me…
it seems the only time we have hung out is when we had ***… everytime i ask her hey lets plan something and go somewhere so we dont have to just go to my house she says no… but if im like hey im coming over and picking you up she just always says yes..then we end up having ***..i told her today that im not going to do that anymore and that going to my house always ends up one way and thats us having ***..i know it just complicates things more but its just so hard because she wont hang out any other way..i try to do other things but she always is like im not ready….

Things aren’t going so well with my girlfriend right now. We’re not communicating, talking seems…well…we don’t have the hour long conversations of past, my friend is telling me that shes worried but when I ask her if something is up she doesn’t tell me. Basically we live two towns away from eachother and usually talk over aim and cell. Recently there was a death in my house (family member who lived with me) then we kinda lost touch…I’d love to try to bring the relationship back to normal but it doesn’t look good…any advice on how to end this safely without making it a war between our two towns would be much appreciated.

I had this relationship several years ago. Now I am in another and we have 3 kids together. I have seen this ex because we have mutual friends. But I would never interfear with any relationship he has now

We decided to end things two weeks ago, and wait for a while to see other people, because we did love each other. Now I saw on her myspace page and it said “feeling oh so loved by the bf” so I guess that means she moved on, and it has only been two weeks and we did love each other.

I know she will respond today because I sent a text saying figured you had a boyfriend. What should I say to her? Should I be rude and hold a grudge or should I be nice and say I wish you happiness? I feel really hurt that she moved on so quick, she even said it would take her a long time to get over it.

Any help please

a boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on you and lie and broke up and you love that person so much.
if boyfriend cheated on you twice and 1 with a girl saying the girl look like me and other with ex. and he couldnt forget about her and been depress over a month and it brought you down depress to where it got you to cut yourself and been bringing himself down even though your trying to keep them happy and he said he dated me because i remind him of his ex. and him finding out he had kids cuz his ex and him dated and she told him it was miscarriage and now tells him few months later it wasnt miscarriage. and then saying a friend of mine is dating him after the day we broke and thas when we were going to get help from my friend and she says no she not dating him, she dating a different guy thats her bf and he says he is and he saying the friend of your been threw alot of **** and now reminds him of his ex

Maybe I’ll quit moping about my breakup if I can hear some different stories about others people’s breakups. (been brokenup for two months and I’m still not over him..)